Lost Opportunities

Opportunities come and go. They may or may not linger for long but the thing about that is you don't know how long it will still be there. Just try to think back, how many opportunities that have been presented to you were lost because you hesitated or tried to wait for what you think is the "right timing".

Lost opportunities couldn't be recovered. If your chance passed by, that's it. You can't turn back time to grab it back. What's lost is lost. Yet it leaves you with the question to wonder, what if you didn't miss that chance and took the opportunity that was there. However, you'll never find out the answer to that question. All you know is missing and opportunity could mean letting something that could mean a lot to you slip away.

Even though we know what we might be missing out on, we still don't take every opportunity presented to us. The fear of possible consequences makes us hesitate and think twice. We have the fear that it may come out as a wrong choice. Certainly there will be risks involved in every choice we make and you certainly have the decision to make the choice. Only you will know if it's worth the risk and if you think it's worth it, why not take it?

Take the shot or lose an opportunity

Too Nice

It's funny how in this world there's such thing as being too nice. It's where you're nice to the point where people use you for their own advantage when they don't care about your well being. However, if you're a genuinely nice person does it really matter that people use you? Your own well being should be taken care by you yourself and the be used to people's advantage means you're able to help people.

What is the problem about being used then? Sure, people take your kindness for granted. People are less appreciative of the many little things that you do for them. If you're being nice just because you are nice it all doesn't matter really. Many people however are not usually that nice but are selectively nice to people. Selectively on timing or individuals. They are the ones who people notice more because it's out of the norm when they do something nice.

The world is unfair. Being just plain genuinely nice doesn't give you an advantage in life. It puts you at a disadvantage instead. However, being genuine has its perks where there will be people who sees it and appreciates it. It will be harder for people to actually take you as an enemy with that kindness in you as well.

Someone who's too nice won't mind being too nice

Your Life's Purpose

Hey you, yes I'm talking to you, the person reading this. Have you ever wondered what is your purpose in life? Do you have an ultimate goal that you want to achieve in life? Do you have something that you want to dedicate you life towards achieving? I used to be a dreamer with a lot of big dreams but the dreams were so vague you realize it doesn't pose much meaning later on in life.

Finding what you love to do and would want to spend your life doing is not the only way to live your life but I can say it would be one of the ideal ways to do it. However knowing what you want to do in life may not come just like that. Sometimes you could be completely clueless about it just living day by day as it has been going.

For someone who always chases dreams you get lost on where to go with no directions to head to. To be lost in life makes you feel a little empty inside. When the activities in the daily life ends, when you stop being busy you start feeling lost. The feeling of being nowhere and have no idea where to head to. If you have a chance, look for it before you have things tying you down and you can't leave everything behind to search for yourself.

Find your life target and make you path to it