What is the problem about being used then? Sure, people take your kindness for granted. People are less appreciative of the many little things that you do for them. If you're being nice just because you are nice it all doesn't matter really. Many people however are not usually that nice but are selectively nice to people. Selectively on timing or individuals. They are the ones who people notice more because it's out of the norm when they do something nice.
The world is unfair. Being just plain genuinely nice doesn't give you an advantage in life. It puts you at a disadvantage instead. However, being genuine has its perks where there will be people who sees it and appreciates it. It will be harder for people to actually take you as an enemy with that kindness in you as well.
Someone who's too nice won't mind being too nice
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