Love

Love is a deep, strong and powerful affection towards someone. So how does this strong feeling of attraction appear? It is a feeling moulded through times that 2 people go through together. It is through really knowing a person and spending time with a person that the feeling is developed. Love is not a magical feeling that just appear out of nowhere, it is attraction towards a person's true self.

So does love at first sight exist? Well, that basically means you're falling for a person's physical traits. A person's physical trait changes through time, and being attracted to just physical trait I really wouldn't call that love at all. However, it doesn't mean it takes years to fall in love with someone. Months may be enough depending on how much understanding there is between the relation.

Loving someone doesn't mean your love has to be requited. Unrequited love isn't exactly that rare. Not all of us can be so lucky to fall in love with someone who loves us back. But loving someone doesn't mean you need to be their lover. Being a friend who's always there for them, doing what we can to make them smile that's not too bad. After all, seeing them happy should make you smile.

Another question is would you stop loving someone? My personal opinion is no unless that person changed totally like became another person altogether. The feelings may change and it feels different but their position in your heart remains to be very special. I'm not sure if I'm right or wrong here as I'm merely speaking based on my personal experience but I really think if the reason you fall in love with that person doesn't change you won't stop loving that person.

Now to end this will be the question is loving someone a good thing or bad thing? Love can cause us a lot of trouble. Love can cause us immeasurable pain. However on the flip side it can also give us immeasurable happiness. We just need the right person at the right timing. We won't know when or if it'll even actually come but so long as we don't give up hope there's a chance it will. When it does, you'll realize all the troubles will be worth it.

Love isn't all about being someone's lover